Stillajwexelder,
I do not know whether to be angry on you behalf about privacy invasion - or laugh at her absurdity
Do what I did, get angry and then laugh it off. What else can you do right?
Thanks lisavegas420. I only hope that she read the entire document. I could easily see her not even reading it because she’s afraid that the real truth might slap her in the face.
You might want to add a little note of your own to that document that snooping around in your private affairs is not only rude, but none of her affair. Then don't say a thing about it.
After giving her enough time to find it, start pass wording stuff you don't want her to see.
You know Forsher, I thought about pass wording that document but I really don’t have anything to hide, besides my initial thought was to give it to her any way. Your rite, it’s a shame that I have to be concerned about who might be snooping around in my files in my own home.
No, it isn't, even if it were an obsession. I consider it to be a healthy hobby and a humanitarian effort, while others choose to look upon their invasion of others' privacy as an inalienable right and not an obsession. The WTS ruins relationships, both within the families and within their borganization.
Well said Frannie Banannie
Obsession...hmmm. I was told the same thing more than a few times as I race to the computer every morning (and several times throughout the day) to see what's up on some different forums! Some family members can't understand why I "let it eat at me" and that I should just put it in the past and move on. So....maybe I am obsessed...but who'se got a better right than former JWs who were duped by a printing company into believing that they were "God's ONLY chosen and approved" religion as we patterned our ENTIRE LIVES around this lie!
Sunspot, I do tend to spend a little more time on line than I should, but I would hardly call it an obsession. And the amount of time that I do spend is unknown by my mother so she has no rite to make such a claim without factual information to support it. Besides if you want to talk about obsession, the amount of time I spend researching JW's and posting on this forum pales in comparison to the amount of time active JW's, including my mother, spending serving their master the WBTS, right?
You also bring up an excellent point regarding my mother’s history of putting her nose where it doesn’t belong. When I was a kid I always had to worry about her going through my stuff and wondering what she would find objection to. It is totally unbelievable that as an adult I still have to be concerned with these same issues.
I would print out what she typed and give it to her.
Atypical, I think that this is my plan. I will type a carefully thought out answer to each and every one of her questions and give it to her while simultaneously forgiving her for her blatant disregard of my privacy.
Garybus, I have read your story some time ago and I am having difficulty recalling the specifics at this point in time. I’m sorry to hear about your children shunning you. I also agree with you. Your right, my mother is afraid of me. I represent every fear she’s ever had regarding independent thinking and stepping out of the society’s controlling dogma.
Skyman, I’m glad you enjoyed my story. That’s why I wanted to share it because I new many others would at least get a kick out of it.
Thanks for your comments everyone. I appreciate it.